Happy Neutral Valentine’s Day!

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Valentine’s day is about expressing
love for each other … Or is it?

Ask yourself, is this what
we are really doing on Feb. 14? 

Experts insist that this annual celebration of your love, regardless of what actions are taken, is just a gesture, with no real meaning.  Rather, nurturing your love depends on a more constant attention to and engagement with your partner. In the crunch of work obligations, family demands, and social commitments this can be easier said than done, but we must make the effort if we want a lasting relationship.

I argue that the above solution sounds logical, and while it is better than not engaging with one another, it is still more like a Band-Aid than the answer to relationship survival. A loving relationship depends on finding and deleting the underlying causes/reasons/sources of relationship problems.

Furthermore, what we are celebrating on Valentine’s Day is not true love, but CONVENTIONAL LOVE, which is conditional and exists as a product of the mind rather than as a reality.  The mind forms an attachment to the idea of love rather than encouraging the free experience and expression of love itself.

Conventional love as we know it exists in the mind as a method of solving perceived needs of the mind.  For example, the majority of us are not OK with being alone. Your mind dictates that you need someone else – and then provides you with a reason for this choice. Perhaps, so you won’t be lonely or bored with yourself, or you need someone to share your life experiences with, someone to give your life meaning or someone who gives you the illusion of being needed.  You may be searching for commitment, attention, security or roots.

Love then becomes an attachment – something you are holding onto.  Sooner or later you actually become an instrument of that attachment – this is when the misery begins.  Now, not only does your mind place conditions and restrictions on your partner, as well as being possessive, but it envisions that your list of expectations involving the other will be fulfilled.  When this fails to occur, memories all the other times your expectations were not met are emotionally triggered and you are no longer dealing with what is currently happening.  You now blame your partner and this becomes a problem, not realizing the source of this problem, its reasons and causes lie within you.

True unconditional love, which resides in the heart center, flows out freely as an expression of who we really are, who we are meant to be.  It has no conditions, expectations, restrictions or possessiveness.

Finally, the most important relationship you have is with yourself …  to love and accept yourself unconditionally.

Now – Getting back to
Valentine’s Day and the Basics:

This special holiday can bring many emotions to the surface …

It’s rather difficult to think about Valentine’s Day if you don’t have a partner, you’re in either a contentious relationship or one that has become boring. For many of us this special day acts to emotionally trigger upsets we have with ourselves or our partners.

Perhaps you can’t find Mr. or Ms. Right or you have given up trying. You may be enduring a relationship where everything is an argument, your emotional needs are ignored by your mate, your mate continually criticizes, blames or ignores you, all passion has died, you want to leave but are too attached or afraid to do so.

Mark Your Calendar:

February 20th Monthly Membership Call
Delete Your Relationship Stress & Pain on the Spot!  

• Step One – I will strengthen you to love yourself unconditionally.
• Step Two – I will find and delete your hidden relationship weaknesses.
• Step Three – I will strengthen you to love others unconditionally.

Overall, I will Identify and DELETE your unknown reasons, causes and sources that led to your relationship pain and stress in the first place!

Special Thank You to Stevie Wonder for his Amazing Song (oldie, but goodie);

 

 

“I Just Called to Say I Love You”

Lyrics:

No New Year's Day to celebrate
No chocolate covered candy hearts to give away
No first of spring
No song to sing
In fact here's just another ordinary day

 

No April rain
No flowers bloom
No wedding Saturday within the month of June
But what it is, is something true
Made up of these three words that I must say to you

 

I just called to say I love you
I just called to say how much I care
I just called to say I love you
And I mean it from the bottom of my heart

 

No summer's high
No warm July
No harvest moon to light one tender August night
No autumn breeze
No falling leaves
Not even time for birds to fly to southern skies

 

No Libra sun
No Halloween
No giving thanks to all the Christmas joy you bring
But what it is, though old so new
To fill your heart like no three words could ever do

 

I just called to say I love you
I just called to say how much I care, I do
I just called to say I love you
And I mean it from the bottom of my heart

 

I just called to say I love you
I just called to say how much I care, I do
I just called to say I love you
And I mean it from the bottom of my heart, of my heart,
of my heart

 

I just called to say I love you
I just called to say how much I care, I do
I just called to say I love you
And I mean it from the bottom of my heart, of my heart,
baby of my heart